The 30 Most Common Social Media Rules: Which Ones Are Real? Which Ones Are Breakable?

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Posted on 27/09/217 min read
The 30 Most Common Social Media Rules: Which Ones Are Real? Which Ones Are Breakable?

Table of Contents

  • Important Social Media Rules and Guidelines
    • Rules For Instagram
    • Rules For Facebook
    • Rules For LinkedIn
    • Rules For Twitter
  • Stay Hyper Relevant
  • Summary
  • Key Takeaways
  • FAQs

We have several constitutions that define our rules in the physical world, so it’s equally important to have a rulebook for the same audience interacting online. After researching intensively, we have put together a list that you may consider your Holy Bible of social media community guidelines.  

Social media etiquettes help protect your reputation and make a noticeable change in how you interact daily. First, you’ll be going through a one-size-fits-all list of guidelines for social media platforms and then a few custom tips and tricks for each platform. Here are some general social media rules and regulations which are applicable on all platforms:

Important Social Media Rules and Guidelines

1.  Stay true to your primary communication. If you’re an owner of a dating application that talks about good relationship practices, don’t divulge political advice.

2.  Set a tone of voice for all your responses and messages that you put across. A good brand always feels more like a person and less like a product. If you’re aiming to be a friendly brand, then find ways to showcase the same.


3. Don’t be overly promotional. 80% of your content should be informational and valuable to your audience. It should be built to engage and give value to their time, and 20% of it should be to sell your product.

4. Don’t overuse hashtags. Hashtags might have been a trend a decade ago, but they do more harm than good to your posts. Stick to 2-3 hashtags that are consistent across all your posts. If it is a Facebook post, no hashtags will provide better engagement.


5. Always check your grammar. Nothing’s more embarrassing than wrong grammar when you’re trying to sound sincere. There are tons of websites and applications to help you with re-checking (read Grammarly, Hemingway, and so on).

6. Don’t jump onto every trend. While the bandwagon of trends and topicals might feel highly relevant to your brand, relating to each one of them might make your brand start sounding a bit irrelevant and all over the place.

7. Always give credit where it’s due. Social media may seem like a giant pool where you can copy-paste content easily, but it’s always good practice to reference your content.

8. Don’t get into arguments. Don’t attack someone for not being “woke”. Saying that you’re aware of issues and asking someone to read up is very easy, but the bullet may backfire on you because you also might not know everything. Thus, it’s better to educate yourself and keep the platform lively for oneself.

9. Don’t forget to interact with your audience. Interactivity will get you brownie points on social media and instantly boost your engagement.

10. Be generous with lighting for your photos. Lighting is the unsung hero of posts that have enormous engagement on social media. A few pictures were taken in natural sunlight or a well-lit area can make a massive difference for your posts.

11. Don’t post something which has no value. Getting into posting might become addictive and give a false sense of growth, but every post should be accounted for (Does it give value? Is it in line with your brand’s communication? Is it helping you achieve your sales goal?)

12. Check for legal issues before posting. This might not apply to many brands and accounts, but make sure you do not endorse hate against a community or promote harmful practices. A solid digital mandate and a legal advisory always help in this regard.

13. Be consistent. A great way to engage with your audience is to be visible to them, which only happens if you don’t let your account collect dust for months.

14. Always lookout for customer inputs. An excellent way to define what to communicate is by tuning in to what your audience says.

15. Always be open to conversation. Try to listen to different views and read up on issues that interest you before typing out an opinion online.

Now that you have a basic template highlighting social media rules and guidelines for all platforms let’s get a little more focused and dive into the nuances of maintaining social media etiquettes on common sharing platforms.  

Rules for Instagram


1. Don’t buy your followers

It never works out. The followers you will buy are usually inactive/bot accounts that don’t add to engagement and do more harm than good for your page’s visibility.

2. Don’t overuse hashtags

Using the correct hashtag is often much better than using tons of them which seem relevant. Pick 2-3 hashtags that serve your brand’s core values best and use them consistently.

3. Be a conversation starter

Consumers love accounts that are authentic and speak up when it’s necessary. Try to adopt a tone of voice that serves the platform you have well.

4. Don’t make it a barter system

Don’t ask for likes in place of likes and followers in place of the following someone. This will not only get exhausting for yourself but also create a bad image for your brand.

Rules for Facebook

1. Fill out descriptions for your posts and photos

Before posting anything online, make sure you fill up the meta descriptions (even if they aren’t visible to your audience). This boosts your photo or video to the algorithm and makes it more desirable to be promoted.

2. Don’t like your own photos

Don’t do it. It never helps you out with the amount of engagement you get and overall feels like a cheap trick.

3. Don’t depend on organic reach to gain followers

While trying to build an organic reach is a noble task, it rarely ever works out. If you haven’t established your brand in the marketplace, then promoting your posts (as a beginner on the platform) is an excellent way to start.

4. Be aware of new and upcoming Facebook tools for content creators

Facebook has a lot of hidden ways and tools built for content creators to engage with their audience. They have tons of features and ways to engage and make exciting content.

A good rule would be to revisit Facebook guidelines every quarter to see how you can play around with the platform and use it to your advantage.

Rules for LinkedIn

1. Have a professional photo

A professional photo always acts like a cherry on the pie for LinkedIn users. It makes it look more legitimate. If you’re a brand trying to reach out to prospective employees or gain clients, having a professional logo as your photo is always a must to get started.

2. Keep it professional and simple

 Posting on LinkedIn can often get confusing because what one considers relevant might be the opposite for others. Always use it for professional purposes and to make connections, not friends.

3. Drop in a message for important connections

While interacting with every connection might get exhausting, it is essential to dropping in a message while connecting with someone important to your professional life. Keep it formal and keep the conversation alive when you talk to them.

4. Don’t misuse the platform

 LinkedIn often gets misused by its users. Some people end up sharing memes, and some even flirt with their connections. You should never indulge in such behavior and keep the platform only on a utility basis.

Rules for Twitter

1. Don’t write a paragraph

It’s called a microblogging site for a reason! The best way to conquer the art of tweeting is by saying more in less. While Twitter allows for a generous 280 characters, try keeping your tweets short and to the point.

2. Don’t overshare

Tweeting might seem like a completely harmless activity when you have less engagement. Even thousands of likes might feel safe. It can get very easy to overshare and spread out your life story on Twitter and leverage likes and replies as a form of satisfaction, but there’s no good ending to that.

3. Always mention that your tweets are personal opinions

It’s good practice to mention that everything you tweet and retweet is your personal opinion and is not endorsed by your company or your employer. This might seem unnecessary, but the most insignificant tweet can get you into trouble!

These guidelines for social media platforms are applicable for other platforms, as well, such as Pinterest, Youtube, Tumblr, and Flickr. However, remember that different platforms have different audiences and hence should ideally be used for various purposes. For example, A personalized email helps build product consideration for a B2B service than other types of content marketing. 

Personalization is slowly becoming a mainstay in maintaining long-term relationships with your customers. Given that the foundation of wowing your target audience lies in knowing them inside out, the most critical social media posting rules become knowing your customer and remaining hyper-relevant. 

Stay Hyper Relevant

This is not just limited to the content strategy and managing the tone of communication but also entails:

  • Maintain differentiation: While following trends and topical themes is excellent, ask yourself if they are really relevant to you.

For example: Is the global Black Lives Matter movement from this year relevant to an Indian brand? 

  • Manage posting timings: Does your target audience check social media in the mornings or evenings? 
  • Manage the content format: Does your target customer prefer to read a detailed blog on his way to work or check a quick infographic on Pinterest while grabbing a snack?  
  • Choose the right platforms: Would you find baby boomers on Instagram? 


This comprehensive list of 30 social media rules and regulations should hold you in good stead when posting on social media. These rules for using social media responsibly will not only keep you in your customers’ good books but also become a strong reason for them to introduce you to their friends. So what are you waiting for? Keep these unsaid social media community guidelines in mind, and you will soon start building not just good but great relationships with your customers.  

Key Takeaways

Summarizing some of the more important social media posting guidelines are highlighted below for your ready reference:

  • Look to engage and entertain customers as a part of your social media strategy. 
  • Reuse and promote your posts to get the most of your best ideas 
  • As much as possible, share facts and figures only after credible research 
  • Maintain a professional yet warm tone
  • Add a line or two to your images and videos to build context 
  • Know your customer and operate around him  
  • Stay in touch with your co-brands, colleagues and partners ‘
  • Use different platforms for different purposes 
  • Different brands need different guidelines for social media usage. 


1. What are the most important rules of etiquette using social media? 

The top 5 unsaid rules for using social media responsibly for businesses are: 
Keep your content relevant 
Be consistent with your language and communication 
Look to add value rather than sell 
Avoid arguments at all costs 
Don’t overuse hashtags    

2. What is the purpose of social media guidelines? 

Social media rules and guidelines help a brand maintain its image and stay true to its personality/customers online by ensuring consistency in communication, tonality, and more across platforms. 

3. How do you write social media brand guidelines? 

Creating a social media template for your brand involves aligning your social media profiles communications, documenting the brand’s tone and voice, creating posting and image guidelines, and deciding how to respond in certain situations. 

4. What should social media brands post?

Some key content buckets brands can build on social media are –
Sharing promotional information (discounts) 
Posts showcasing the company culture
Customer reviews and testimonials  
Posts highlighting product/ service features  
Industry news and achievements 

5. What are the five most important social media etiquettes? 

Social Media best practices marketers should generally adopt are –
Initiate something new rather than just reacting or responding 
Research your hashtags 
Customize content according to the platform 
Use direct messages sparingly 
Add a human touch to your posts 

6. What are some essential social media don’ts? 

Some important social media don’ts are:
Don’t like your own content
Don’t depend only on organic reach 
Don’t be a spammer 
Don’t use all caps 
Don’t abuse hashtags

7. What are the three Es of posting on social media? 

One of the essential social media rules and guidelines is maintaining a healthy balance between engaging, educating and entertaining.  

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